Overthinkin

This is happened when you a bit ignore your life because of (over)thinking about other's (future) life.
These 2 best human beings who I love the best's.

"You think too much", someone said to me. "How come you think about the things that they may not even think about it?!"

I'm worried. Extremely worried, yes I am. And it's terrible.
Then it leaded us to a longer conversation...

Beliau :  "It haven't even happened yet"

Saya :  "Yap, but...can you tell me how to face your beloved people when they show you a look of disappointment or depressing face? Because I just won't ever be able to stand it for even once."

Beliau :  "But you either won't ever be able to 100% avoid a-n-y-o-n-e from being hurt"

Saya :  "So, what should I do?"

Beliau :  "It's supposed to be my question, what do you expect yourself can do for them? What do you want to do?"

Saya:  "I'm not telling you this if I already know exactly what to do"

Beliau :  "No matter how special they're to you, or how special you're, Human is human. Not perfect. And once again I repeat, will get hurt no matter how, and so are you, you're human and you'll also get hurt, no matter how."

Saya :  "That's the current point, what will I do if my thought comes true? When the day that they get hurt comes and I can do absolutely nothing later? It will feel 'errrrrghhh'."

Beliau :  "Even the beautiful thing like crystal can be broken, loh! Do the parents who love their children in amazing amount keep their children in the bubble so that their children won't get hurt? No, it's not life.
The more you socialize, the more hurt you get. You have to get hurt so that you can learn the life lesson, grow up, and survive eventually, and that's what you called the real life."

Saya :  "I'm just worried. Really. How do you feel if people who you love that much are in that state?"

Beliau :  "Why worry? You're supposed to know that there's the one who loves them more than you do, do you know who's it?"

Saya :  "Absolutely yes, their parents do."

Beliau :  "NO! God does. Are you doubting the power of God?"

Saya :  "Of course not! God won't worry, I mean"

Beliau : "And that's the point! God won't worry because God exactly knows what's best for them. And God loves them more than anyone, anyway. So, let God protect them. What else to worry about then?"

Saya :  "Still, I feel like I also take the responsibility if my thoughts happen. And if there's nothing I can do, it will feel more terrible."

Beliau :  "No, you're not supposed to feel it! No matter who they are to you, when you'd already reminded and admonished them, your responsibility as a human are done already. Because the most-things-do in life is to survive, hence there's not your responsibility to keep them survive. And you know exactly that nothing last forever, so give them the things that can be kept for their lifetime, called moments and life lessons.

And, by the way, you obviously often listen and read many quotes about life, don't you? So do they. And the quotes really aren't just bullshit, it's just about how you apply it in the real life. Everybody knows all the consequences of life. Life isn't that simple, indeed, so you have to learn how to simplify it."

Saya :  "How about "nothing I can do" matter?"

Beliau :  "Then what do you want to do? Tell the whole world to not hurting them? Does that make sense? Come on, you start loving them on the wrong way!"

Saya :  "I think I don't. I just keep doing something good for others in the hope that God will reward all someday when I really need, though not from the people I've given that good things to."

Beliau :  "Are you expecting reciprocation?"

Saya : "Is it wrong if I expect God's rewards?"

Beliau :  "Do you mean you wish someone will keep doing something good someday for you and ignore his/her life?"

Saya :  "What do you mean?"

Beliau :  "Yea, it's you. You just ignored your life by thinking about others. This is the wrong part. You have your own life! Who will think about yours but yourself?"

Saya :  "Did I...? Is it wrong if I think about them?"

Beliau : "Not at all. But it will be wrong if you start to not thinking about your own life. They definitely will survive eventually, in the right time. You can't force the ugly cocoon turns into a beautiful butterfly if it's not the time yet, so is the life.

And the more worries you grow means the less faith you have to God."

Saya :  "What if I do worship to God with the aim of praying for their good? Isn't it not allowed?"

Beliau : "Who says? You're allowed for sure. It has the same meaning with trusting God to handle their business because you know God will give them the very best, hasn't it?
You've already gotten the point, then"

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